would prefer if it was pearl white but doesn't matter if it isnt

I don't have one, but I can tell you that the hoods are the same from 99 - 03 for the RLs. the part number is 60100-SZ3-010ZZ. List is $658 new. www.acuraoemparts.com has it for $494.
Best bet is to find someone parting out an RL. Try www.crazedlist.org to search multiple craigslist sites. Check ebaymotors.com as well. You could submit a request via partfinder.com and salvage yards will respond. Shipping a hood is expensive. Greyhound Freight might be the best choice...